UPDATE: In a pressing social conundrum, etiquette expert Miss Manners has issued urgent advice regarding the etiquette of taking group photos at social gatherings, especially amid rising concerns about privacy on social media.
Every day, individuals find themselves grappling with the challenge of maintaining their privacy while navigating social norms. In a recent inquiry, a reader expressed discomfort with friends who insist on taking photographs during lunch, which are subsequently shared online. The reader, who prefers not to have their image posted, reported feeling alienated by their friends’ reactions.
“Good manners would dictate that permission should be sought before taking someone’s photo,” Miss Manners remarked, emphasizing the importance of respecting personal boundaries. While laws may not enforce this courtesy in many places, she advocates for a cultural shift in attitudes towards privacy, pointing to Dubai as a model where permission is required for photography.
As social media continues to dominate our lives, this issue resonates with many who value their privacy. The reader’s situation highlights a growing discomfort with the casual sharing of images without consent, stressing the emotional toll it can take on those who feel violated by such practices.
In another pressing matter, Miss Manners addressed a reader’s concern about receiving unsolicited alcohol shots at a pub. The reader, who abstains from drinking, expressed discomfort with the bartender’s well-meaning but intrusive gestures. Miss Manners advised firmly but kindly requesting the bartender to stop providing alcohol, while still encouraging a friendly atmosphere with non-alcoholic alternatives.
Additionally, the etiquette expert provided guidance on navigating interruptions during meetings. A reader struggling to maintain decorum in the workplace sought advice on how to manage lengthy discussions without cutting off colleagues. Miss Manners suggested raising a hand to signal the need to speak, or asking if there will be time for questions.
“While it may seem school-like, it prevents actual interruptions,” she said, offering practical solutions to improve communication dynamics in professional settings.
Miss Manners’ insights are not just about etiquette; they reflect broader societal values concerning respect and consideration for others. These discussions are vital as we continue to blend traditional social norms with the realities of modern communication.
For those facing similar challenges, Miss Manners encourages open conversations about boundaries, whether in restaurants, bars, or workplaces. Her wisdom serves as a reminder of the importance of kindness and respect in all interactions.
Stay tuned for further updates on social etiquette and the evolving norms of our digital age. For more questions or scenarios, readers can reach out to Miss Manners through her website or email.
