Valentine’s Day can present unique challenges for families affected by dementia. With approximately 57 million people worldwide experiencing this condition, according to the World Health Organization, finding ways to celebrate love while navigating these challenges is essential. In Colorado alone, the Department of Public Health and Environment estimates that over 90,000 residents are impacted by dementia.
Chris Schneider, Media Relations Director with the Alzheimer’s Foundation of America (AFA), emphasizes that while Valentine’s Day is a time for love and warmth, its meaning shifts for families dealing with dementia. “It can impact memory, it can impact their ability to communicate, and also to verbalize their feelings and comprehend what others are saying,” Schneider explained.
To foster a more supportive environment, the AFA recommends a set of practices known as “C.A.R.E.” These tips aim to enhance connections and create a comforting atmosphere for those living with dementia.
Creating Meaningful Connections
One of the key suggestions is to engage in conversations about past experiences. Schneider advises that families can browse through old photos together, as reminiscence serves as a great form of cognitive stimulation. “You just don’t want to do it in a way of asking somebody with dementia, ‘do you remember this?’ Because that kind of puts them on the spot,” he cautioned.
Additionally, introducing comforting sensory experiences can have a therapeutic effect. Simple items, such as a bouquet of flowers or a familiar fabric, can stimulate the senses and evoke positive memories. “Maybe there’s a favorite fabric or favorite item that the person has; hold it together, talk about it,” Schneider suggested.
Expressing Emotion and Support
Reinforcing connections is vital, as dementia does not diminish the human need for interaction. Schneider highlighted the importance of physical touch, stating that “things like holding hands, gentle touch, just real sensory experiences that show warmth and care, a friendly smile, a warm glance, all of those things can help build that connection.”
Expressing feelings openly is another crucial element. Writing a card and reading it aloud, or showing affection through actions, can be effective strategies. “They will understand the warmth you’re putting out. They’ll understand the emotion that you’re putting behind the card,” Schneider noted. He also mentioned that this practice can benefit caregivers as they articulate their feelings.
The C.A.R.E. tips extend beyond Valentine’s Day. Schneider encourages families to adopt these practices year-round to strengthen relationships with their loved ones.
For those seeking additional support, the Alzheimer’s Foundation of America offers resources, including a helpline at 866-232-8484 and text messaging services at 646-586-5283. A web chat feature is also accessible on the AFA’s website to assist individuals navigating these challenges.
