The enduring relationship between country music legend Dolly Parton and pop star Miley Cyrus continues to captivate fans, highlighting a unique bond that began before Cyrus was even born. Parton has been a significant figure in the Cyrus family, providing mentorship and support throughout Cyrus’s life and career. Their connection, which deepened over the years, showcases a heartfelt dynamic that intertwines family, friendship, and professional guidance.
Dolly Parton first became involved with the Cyrus family in the early 1990s, when she befriended Billy Ray Cyrus, Miley’s father. At the time, Billy Ray was an opening act on one of Parton’s tours. Their friendship blossomed, leading to Billy Ray’s request for Parton to be Miley’s godmother. Reflecting on this special relationship, Parton stated in 2009, “I’m her honorary godmother… I’ve known her since she was a baby. Her father’s a friend of mine, and when she was born, he said, ‘You just have to be her godmother,’ and I said, ‘I accept.’”
Billy Ray Cyrus emphasized the bond between his daughter and Parton, describing it as a connection of “kindred spirits.” He noted, “You could just feel it from the second they met. It was two peas in a pod.” This sentiment has only grown stronger over the years, with Parton stepping into a mentoring role for Cyrus as she navigated the complexities of fame.
Parton’s influence on Cyrus became particularly evident when she guest-starred on the Disney Channel series Hannah Montana, where she played the character Aunt Dolly. This role not only showcased their relationship on screen but also introduced Parton to a younger audience. Parton fondly recalled this experience, saying, “You really helped my career, you introduced me to a whole new set of fans. Young ones! Though of course they’re not all as young as they used to be now.”
The guidance Parton provides goes beyond mere friendship; it encompasses invaluable life lessons. Cyrus shared a piece of advice she received from Parton: “You do you, I’ll do me, and together we’ll be us. I can’t be giving you and you can’t be giving me… We all just need to be ourselves.” This approach reflects Parton’s belief in authenticity, a theme that resonates deeply with both artists.
As Cyrus prepared for the 2024 Grammy Awards, she once again sought Parton’s wisdom. Nominated for her hit song “Flowers,” Cyrus wanted to ensure she made the right impression. “I told her [Parton], ‘I’m wondering if I’m going to do the Grammy’s or not,’” Cyrus explained. Parton’s response was both encouraging and empowering: “Well, of course you’re gonna do the Grammy’s. And you’re not just gonna show up but you’re gonna show off. And you’re gonna be everything that you are sitting right here in front of me.” Her words emphasized the importance of presentation and self-expression in the entertainment industry.
Parton’s extensive experience, having won 10 Grammy Awards and performed on the Grammy stage numerous times, adds weight to her advice. She encourages Cyrus not to conform to expectations but to embrace her individuality. “She wasn’t telling me to be Dolly,” Cyrus clarified. “She was telling me to be me.”
Their relationship extends beyond professional mentorship; they are also distantly related. Research through Ancestry.com revealed that Parton and Cyrus are seventh cousins, sharing a common ancestor named John Brickey. While this familial connection is a fun fact, Parton treats Cyrus as if she were her own daughter. Despite not having children of her own with her late husband, Carl Dean, Parton expresses her affection for Cyrus in heartfelt ways. On Mother’s Day, she wrote to Cyrus, “How much do I love you? As much as my heart can hold and as far as my arms can reach.” This message touched Cyrus deeply, illustrating the profound love and respect they have for one another.
In a world often marked by fleeting relationships, the enduring bond between Dolly Parton and Miley Cyrus serves as a testament to the power of genuine connection. Their story is a reminder that love and support can flourish across generations, enriching both their lives and the lives of their fans. As they continue to navigate their respective careers, the mutual admiration and affection they share will undoubtedly inspire many.
